April burns say’s men don’t try to change the woman they’re dating because they’re to busy doing other things. if she’s high-maintenance, he’ll either dump her or accept her for who she is. Women shouldn’t try to be relationship mechanics. It’s like buying a bad car. Why waste your money trying to fix a lemon? Just trade it in for a better one. Men are not going to change. If your spending more time and energy trying to change a man than having fun with him, you must don’t want to be with him. Stop looking for a husband and start looking for a companion. Use your female relationships as models. Are they strong and secure? do you accept that your friends have certain problems and idiosyncrasies? Do you spend all your time trying to change them? My guess is, probably not. your goal ladies isn’t to find a friend who will be with you for the rest of your life. If that happens, it’s great, if the friendship breaks up or fades away with time, while their maybe sadness, you generally feel that you’ve enjoyed their company for however long it lasted. ladies some of you have to learn when some men are not really in to you, But more about what he can get out of you and if that’s the case then you should know up front. http://tips.aprilburn.com for April’s latest!!