How to make up with your man.Apologize to your spouse. Whether or not you were right about the subject of the fight is not important. Give your spouse space when needed. Take some responsibility. Did you snap at your partner? are you trying to control the outcome of the fight? Be humble. Sometimes if you can apologize for something you did even if you didn’t” start” it. Try letting go of being right. Wanting to win an argument is the surest way to keep it going. Let your partner learn in his or her own way. You can only control yourself and your own pace of learning. Appreciate your partner. The sooner you two can experience some form of joy and a light heart, the better.